The trouble, though, is the ones who really mean to carry the plan through often, as I understand it, do so without anyone really even knowing, until the discovery. *sigh* (Had a friend from work who chose that exit - very intelligent sort, from a large family with pretty much a history of MIT graduation, laid back, living in a mellow neighborhood of San Francisco.. it came as such a shock to everyone, though I suppose the dot com crash had taken its toll, not to mention the shape of the world, post-Bush)