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ibnekoYour Existing Situation
Working to improve her image in the eyes of others so as to obtain their compliance and agreement with her needs and wishes.
Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates her and inhibits her readiness to give herself freely. While she wants to surrender and let herself go, she regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, she feels, will lift her above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Demanding and particular in her relations with her partner or those close to her. but careful to avoid open conflict since this might reduce her prospects of realizing her hopes and ideas.
Circumstances are restrictive and hampering, forcing her to forgo all joys and pleasures for the time being.
Your Desired Objective
Longs for tenderness and for a sensitivity of feeling into which she can blend. Responsive to anything esthetic and tasteful.
Your Actual Problem
Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem.
Yeah, it uses she and her. I'm tempted to re-do it as male, just to see the differences, but I no longer remember my choices and the site is too slow.
Let's see...improving my images? not really. Stress sources. IB. desire for preeminence? maybe. What's preeminence? ^.- Circumstances are restrictive and hampering... and as far as that goes, it's pretty accurate. I think? Yes' to desired objective and actual problem.
Working to improve her image in the eyes of others so as to obtain their compliance and agreement with her needs and wishes.
Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates her and inhibits her readiness to give herself freely. While she wants to surrender and let herself go, she regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, she feels, will lift her above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Demanding and particular in her relations with her partner or those close to her. but careful to avoid open conflict since this might reduce her prospects of realizing her hopes and ideas.
Circumstances are restrictive and hampering, forcing her to forgo all joys and pleasures for the time being.
Your Desired Objective
Longs for tenderness and for a sensitivity of feeling into which she can blend. Responsive to anything esthetic and tasteful.
Your Actual Problem
Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem.
Yeah, it uses she and her. I'm tempted to re-do it as male, just to see the differences, but I no longer remember my choices and the site is too slow.
Let's see...improving my images? not really. Stress sources. IB. desire for preeminence? maybe. What's preeminence? ^.- Circumstances are restrictive and hampering... and as far as that goes, it's pretty accurate. I think? Yes' to desired objective and actual problem.
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Date: 2003-11-03 10:31 pm (UTC)-Jules
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Date: 2003-11-03 10:42 pm (UTC)ehh.. ok ::hugs back:: but you are smart......